I am sorry to hear again such bad news.
It looks much like a blatant lack of respect toward other people - all the more, when the antagonists are anonymous.
But on-line relationships of all kinds are much like personal links in everyday life. One has to try to get along as well as possible with many different personalities, beliefs and mentalities. We can't love on command, we all have emotions and are vulnerable, but we can respect each other and try to listen to each other. We can disagree without insulting and hurting our friends and acquaintances. And respect and tolerance mean that one has to admit that the other side might be right too or might need a ready ear. After all, nobody is perfect and everybody makes errors.
Maybe that a kinder approach and some reflection about how to communicate with each other could help - but all the sides should make the effort, and sometimes, one has to let go or leave.
http://oureverydaylife.com/signs-lack-respect-between-people-8475884.html