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It depends on what the two people in the relationship have said what´s okay or not. I would never flirt with anyone atleast, it doesn´t interest me either. If someone flirts with me I try to be nice back but avoid flirting. Sometimes it can even be annoying with someone flirting with me even if they know I have a boyfriend. 

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@ Amber  When you're Younger , things like a Lover Flirting can affect you more because in Truth you haven't built up your  *LIKE I GIVE A FUCK RESILIENCE* and tbh that takes Years babe

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@Serenity

Yeah I know and I'm already a little extra sensetive but it feels like it's getting better now. I also a forgiving person and could forgive someone if he/she did something mean or bad. Or said something mean to me cause I can take pretty much even though it always end up with me crying. But if I myself did something wrong I think I deserve to be treated in the same way.

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@ Amber   I to can Forgive but of course as with everything , there are limits and a Person can only push another so far. :angry:

until they snap!  and say  "Oh fuck this for a laugh"  

I don't get this Punishment thing , that doesn't resolve an issue , it just makes another one 

Harboured , deep seated resentment or at least that's how I would feel if I felt I was being Punished by my Partner for doing something WRONG.

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@Serenity

Yeah I understand that if the person would do same mistake several times. I wouldn't punish someone else for their actions atleast because I just want to be nice and forgive, especielly if I love that certain person. 

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@ Amber , exactly  I  don't want to Punish someone I Love and inflict Emotional Pain on them.

The things that stop Forgiveness are our Ego and Fear of being Hurt but so often if we choose not to Forgive , we in actual fact hurt ourselves.image

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Flattery harms no one.

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Not intentionally, no.

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If you need to flirt to make someone's day why not. 

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I think for some , seeing a Lover Flirt can be very Damaging and can change that Persons feelings for what could be nothing but Harmless Flirting but if there is that niggling doubt in the Back of their Mind 

it's not good and they need to be with someone who isn't an Outrageous Flirt and makes them Unhappy


Of course if they are both Naturally Flirtatious , then things can be different., some just have to accept that Flirting comes Naturally as Breathing to some of us but they have to be secure and Trust that it goes no further and that's the hard part..

MY Partner/Lover only Flirts with me

I think he knows I would break his Balls if he Flirted with other Women *smiling* and he doesn't want to or feel the need to anyway , so I guess I'm Lucky in that respect ...........guess that's what it comes down to

RESPECT .



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